Is this accurate?

A man can endure a lot of things, but being disrespected is not one of them.

Why?

Because respect is the foundation of his social existence. A man can survive poverty, physical pain, even betrayal, but disrespect attacks his fundamental sense of worth and status in the social hierarchy. Itโ€™s not about ego. Itโ€™s about the implicit message that disrespect sends: โ€œYou donโ€™t matter. Your boundaries mean nothing. You can be violated without consequence.โ€

No functional society, relationship, or self can be built on that foundation. Tolerating disrespect doesnโ€™t make you stronger or more enlightened. It makes you a doormat. And nature has no use for doormats.โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹

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Checks out I think.

Shared recognition of personhood is the foundation of relationship.

We call that recognition "respect."

Checks out I think.

Shared recognition of personhood is the foundation of relationship.

We call that recognition "respect."

Checks out I think.

Shared recognition of personhood is the foundation of relationship.

We call that recognition "respect."

woah sorry about that.

Nobody should feel they need to tolerate disrespect especially when it violates their private property.

Also take nothing personally.

Don't get all pissy because I won't eat your seed oil laden salad. Don't get upset that I called your 'sure thing' investment a fiat shitcoin.

Disagreeing isn't disrespectful.

You placing your own time or preference above my own & then expecting me to just accept it, is your error. It's not disrespect.

Solid points Brisket

Some people tolerate people walking all over them.

I find that just as disgusting as when someone tries to do it to me or my family.

Have a great Christmas brother! ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿซ‚

Accurate.

A man cannot tolerate it.

His response is what matters.

His response should be resolute without violence unless provoked.

It depends on what you mean by "endure".

I always look to Jesus as the guiding exsample. He endured all kinds of disrespect during his crucifiction, because he knew that this was the only way to bring about our salvation. But at other times during his ministy he had very strong reactions to disrespect. Such as when he cursed the Pharisees or drove out the merchants from the temple.

So I think if you're being disrespected you should ask yourself: Does it serve god and my neigbour, if I let the disrespect continue. Or is it an insult to god and myself as an image bearer?

These are great points Micha. Christ is our example and endured literally All our shame

man have big ego as same as woman

"re-spect" - to look again

etymology -> "to pay attention to one's surrounds"

"dis-re-spect"

implied: to not pay attention to one's surrounds

thus, it attacks nothing implicitly

thus, it is none of your business

although you may wish to take note

prior to silently walking away

to determine self-worth

based upon your interpretation of another's conduct

is to open yourself to all manner of confusion

inclusive of self-doubt

in which way you matter is up to your magical whim

as it depends solely upon which aesthetic you wish to re-present

your boundaries - there are those you will want to defend till the death

in summary:

immunity from dis-respect is generally maintained by remaining deadly,

joyfully and lovingly deadly if you can manage it

be clear about the behaviour you deem acceptable

most importantly your own

because it is through your behaviour you communicate your values

and the world has only this as a guide

in determining which theatre most appropriate to your viewing pleasure