Talking about your wife like that in public is a 🚩
For wanting so hard to be an alpha he's not doing a great job of taking responsibility for his household.
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bitching is beta
Ex wife. Idk his life or what kind of partner he had so I’m not going to judge. Some women are fucked up.
That's fair enough
it's a red flag though
i've been through dozens of relationships of all kinds with manipulators and general psychos and one of the red flags is when they start bitching about someone from their past on a regular basis
i can say "oh yeah i had numerous bad ones" but i'm not gonna bring it up without someone actually prompting me to talk about my relationship history, i mean, i've had some shockers, seriously, i don't think you'd want to hear
and that's the difference
the manipulator, psycho type, thinks you need to know because they are narcissists