I'm not 100% sure what you mean by feedback? You can set dms to only be accepted from smaller, maybe paid, relays or ones that honor the gift wrap scheme... Limit global feed to well filtered/moderated relays... Only write to paid relays, but read from public ones or vice versa. Add a search relay you like & use it for just search while not searching all the others... The relay icons next to notes show that it is working. Cleaning up global feed showcases it really well. If that's what you mean by feedback? Based on the difference of what's pulled in, I can only assume sending out works too. No feedback there. I've never had the desire to stalk myself with a throwaway key long enough to know 😂

You should play with the globes. Check your feed, turn it off on a bunch of relays & wait 10 min or so, then check again. Shutting off Damus relay for global had the largest impact I think. If you don't like it, just turn them back on & wait a few minutes again.