Did you add relays to the config file ?
Discussion
Yes I put damus.io in there. I also put my npub in the whitelist section
If you are connecting to local network, Ensure that you are connecting with ws:// and NOT wss://.
Why is that ?
wss:// is for secured connection. Non secured connection should use ws:// instead. If you have a working TLS, You could use wss://. But for your setup that only serves locally, there's no need for TLS.
Yeah I did that. When I start bostr it says listening on ws://0.0.0.0:8080 and connected to wss://relay.damus.io. Do I put ws://0.0.0.0:8080 in my nostr client relay section? Should it work after that? (It didnt) The only thing I changed in the config is the damus relay. Is there anything else Im missing that is required?