Yeah, it's a brutal position. It's no real consolation but the idea is they are hoping you have a child. It reminds me of when a woman is going through something and tells her husband, because men like to fix things he suggests actions to take instead of just holding her and listening to her. I do this all the time with my wife. She tells me how she feels, I say "why don't you do [such-and-such] solution." And she just gets more upset. I love her and I am coming from a place of love but, that's not what she needs.