There's an easy test:
Ask her if she thinks the 5 men she spends the most time with or interacts with the most are all generally honest, loving, industrious, and protective. (Or at least try to be so, some men are physically disabled, or something.)
Usually, if she says "No", you can assume that she has serious character flaws. Not because she is misjudging the men around her, but because she is judging them correctly.
Interesting. Snd the more i think of this the more complicated it seems. I don't have now a woman of that kind around. I just want women that i feel comfortable with. You know, the kind that doesn't ask you constantly were you were and what you did. So i don't know. I can't think too much of relationships. They just happen. Interesting though...
Mens' tolerance for crazy reduces with age, along with their thirstiness.
So, the men improve and gain greater self-control and their willingness to put up with bullshit decreases in parallel.
I now have a high opinion of all of the men I interact with most, IRL or online, but I also have to occasionally accept criticism or correction from them.
I have higher standards, but they have higher standards, too.
Correction is a must. Leads to brtter life.
It can be painful, but dealing with that is part of maturing.
Yes but it has a good side also. I'll give you an example. The best advices i ever got were from women. Only from women. Why? Because women think differently in certain things snd situations. Something simple for a woman's mind is almost unthinkable for a man. For example, in certain situations a man wants to punch through his way like a bull and he stucks on thoughts like this. He can't think differently. Until a woman comes to rescue, because women think differently. That applies on several situations. And the less the woman knows you the better usually.
Hmmm i might ask your advice in the future, who knows...
It's probably less painful for men to receive correction. They tend to not be as doted on and fearful.
Hmmm probably yes. I don't really know that... I just think that women could also gain benefit in a similar way somehow...
Oh, definitely, but we tend to take it worse.
We sometimes get panicky and depressed or aggressive.
Always have that instinctive, irrational fear that he's not going to feed you, anymore.
Ah i see. Maybe you can acquire some skill by the time on this, i don't know, but usually you overcome such things with training and experience i think. Not sure though...
I just try to fight the panic down and not cry, with limited success. 🙈
Although, I guess men have something similar. The "she won't let me have sex with her" terror, that somehow hovers over even their most platonic relationships.
Fear of alienation of affection versus fear of neglect or abandonment.
Obviously, we're not actually afraid of the loss of sex or food; that's just the underlying instinctive fear. Hindbrain stuff.
That's a real fear 😃.
The fact that a woman demands to consume your time for self-confirmation of an imaginable status she would like to have (and which she doesn't possess, whoever has that status don't do that), while rejecting having sex with you knowing that you might want that, is a terrorist and criminal activity 😃 that tries to push you to the edges intentionally to see how far you would go for her. Women who do that are ending up with lesser men, confirming their real status of a lesser woman that doesn't worth your time and puts her in the position of a mistreatment candidate. Every woman with dignity should avoid that behaviour. I mean it, it's a must not...
In fact some women try to create a public image for you , that you want to have sex with her even if you don't want, and it is she that rejects you. How pathetic...
Avoid that...
I meant more... in-general. Irrational fears, not disappointed expectations.
