Ok, then when I also say you are in a cult I'm not namecalling either. Just identifying you. Obviously you don’t believe you’re in a cult. But can you be sure?
...see how stupid this is? It's tangential. Even if I steelman you and say I'm in a cult, someone in a cult can say things that are true or present valid arguments. My cult status is irrelevant.
Refute the central points being made.
