I get more annoyed by people who wanting to proudly do self-custody want to run things on their own and be in control but then angrily complain about channel closures by their peers.
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I think this is a fundamental chasm in the implied meaning of "self-custody."
Funds? Yes. Payments? No.
People want to own things. Don't hate them for it
I love them for that.
but I dislike that they don’t want to accept that in order for them to own things their peers also have to own things.
I hear it, I've been trying to figure it out for years. I'm feeling good about https://deposits.ynniv.com though. Let anyone who can do the work be an "LSP" for everyone who can't
Get better peers. If I get a channel closure I can reach out to the person to see what's up or it's some rando that opened a channel to me that I do t even care about.
I even have peers that let each other know when their nodes go offline.
