Young people very rarely have the capacity to make big choices in life.

The difference between boys and girls is that boys need to make those mistakes or they'll never grow into men.

In girls, value must be preserved lest they be a liability to any man they may end up with.

Sexual mistakes are destructive. Poor financial literacy is destructive. A poor choice in men is the worst mistake a young girl can make.

A father's role is to guard against a daughter's poor choices and to guide a son to away from poor choices, both through wisdom and opportunities to make mistakes to learn.

"The soil of feminism.

The soil of weak fathers.

The soil of evil."

When you don't understand the nature of the reality of how people develop and how they work, you lack the nuance necessary to see what's most real with a particular person and situation.

Character and competence are a part of the fundamental design of men and women. They present to some degree differently for men and women, but the process for their development is largely the same.

Character is developed through a process of integration with what is most true, about Father, Jesus, and Holy Spirit, with oneself, and with a healthy and functional community, spiritually, psychologically, and physically, generally speaking.

Competence is ideally based on character, relative to the nature of the person's personality, which categorically divides people with temperaments that are inclined towards tactical or strategic intelligence and action, those who are inclined toward cooperation or what works as a method for solving problems, and those who are inclined toward concrete or abstract word usage. Each person is inclined towards three of these six dimensions of personality, as God has designed them, relative to particular contexts, personal choices, and family of origin.

As you know, as a father it is your responsibility to lead and coach and support your children's development in these dimensions, relative to their developmental level and age, regardless of sex.

There are unique needs for girls and boys, and temperamentally behaviors they are inclined towards because of their sex, physiology, and more, for instance the hemispheres of males brains are to some degree separated by a membrane that forces them to develop in a staggered nature, while female brain don't have as nearly thick a membrane separating their left and right hemispheres, meaning aspect of females maturity are already in place from a young age which aren't there for males.

I think your assertion, "My daughters are too valuable for a career," is prideful, bordering on arrogant, and seems to imply a belief system that, in my opinion will damage your daughters belief systems and emotions, causing them to feel hurt, on an unarticulated level, and that you don't believe in them. This will inspire in them insecurity and a need to earn your belief in them. They will probably work very hard before they enter adulthood to try to earn from you the input their hearts desperately need, which is, "I believe in you." As this is what females are inclined to do, being more agreeable generally by nature, and aiming to please, by nature, their fathers.

If I'm right about you, (and of course I very well may not be), what you believe about and how you relate to your daughters will damage their character and competence development, and may even cause them to nonconciously say to themselves, "If my dad doesn't believe in me, why should I?" I assume that's not what you want, and why I've pushed back on your assertion so hard. I don't want you to hurt your daughters hearts.

If you interpret what I'm saying as the "soil of feminism...weak fathers...evil," it likely means it's difficult for you to see what's real, and interact with it with nuance. Based on the feedback I'm getting from you, I think this is probably the case, but again, I could be wrong. I hope I am wrong.

Bless you as you raise your daughters, and bless your daughters.