It's not the UX it's that damus doesn't use the relay configuration nip and all the other clients do. I see damus users constantly having this problem when they try to branch out to any other nostr app ββ (β Β β Λβ _β Λβ )β β
I feel like relay management UX still needs improving. I frequently switch between nostr:npub12vkcxr0luzwp8e673v29eqjhrr7p9vqq8asav85swaepclllj09sylpugg and nostr:npub18m76awca3y37hkvuneavuw6pjj4525fw90necxmadrvjg0sdy6qsngq955 (and nostrudel, and coracle, ...) and I have to keep an eye on https://metadata.nostr.com constantly because my relays get overwritten with random permutations of old states all the time.
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Interesting, thanks.