I believe women can do anything... But!

The lie that we were told as women is that we can do everything. It's just not true.

Yes women can do anything but there are always tradeoffs.

If you want the job go get it! If you want the family do that! But doing both is going to take a huge toll and I don't believe it is possible to be able to do both at 100%.

Empowering women to choose what feeds their soul most is the true feminist movement.

I had an extraordinary career with amazing opportunities and experiences. At times I was the only women on my team and I was proud of what I did and know I made a difference. I was able to look after myself which was good because no-one else was.

But!

It took me away from my family and social supports. I had less time to be still and soft. It took a toll on my body and my mind.

Now I get to choose to perfect the art of being a domestic engineer. I have a man who supports me in a way I didn't know I was missing. I still have the ability to do the heavy lifting and manual labour if I choose and I can had him the tricky jars for him to open for me.