Not really messaging right now, but still looking for a family internal chat solution.
There has been some development on #nostr, like 0xchat, and we also have experimented with Delta Chat in the past. 🤔
Discussion
Don't forget Keychat and White Noise too
currently using session, cs its the only one seems to be promising, but not 100% convinced to them either
If it’s for family internal chat, you can try XChat (the lite version of 0xchat).
I like SimpleX