I feel that about Lightning... Without Fishcake, I would still be scrambling for a channel. It feels very VIPish - you have to be invited, or have invested, to participate. And, this is my only channel - so unless I satisfy that by the generousity of others, I can not zap anyone, since it is entirely outbound.
I feel like those fanboys forgot where they started a long time ago. Everyone has to start somewhere and shaming them for it is a big mistake, leads to rejection and can even turn into something worse. I'd rather have experimented with something and gotten experience with it than just pretending to sit on a high throne but leaving my sats to WoS/Alby. xD This's actually my favorite thing to do: Find a maxi, and check their LN Adress. All their big talk falls flat when you realize that they put their supposed-to-be decentralized currency into the hands of a centralized entity. Laughable. ^^'
I really wish some of those idiots would understand that not everyone was born with money to burn. I only have my resources because the state literally supports me due to my visual impairment. If I hadn't had it, I would be pretty boned.
So yeah, you might not make friends with most due to your opinion - but I get it, and I share it too. Except for the knowledge about other chains and stuff, got some ways to go there. x) I want to try out Monero at some point but for now, I am quite happy with the fact I have a stable Bitcoin/Lightning stack. Phew... Took forever, cost me some nerves and loads of brainpower. Sadly I can't meassure that in PoW xD