re: crying over breakfast, that's the only part that upsets me. there is nothing wrong with crying. and secondly, if your husband disagrees about what the children are being fed so much he is crying, that isnt an anecdotal story, that's a serious actual amount of dissent and to carry on as if it isnt, rowan, is misandry.
https://blossom.primal.net/780680a203ee977ecf9f4c76a51adde7ccfde66a0bd0745ca22b553532c0ce41.mov