1. You are allowing her to define you.
2. Just be you.
3. Kick her out of your headspace. She's living there rent free.
4. She loves you. Love her back. Warts and all.
5. You don't need her permission, approval or consent.
6. She is aware that she has this hold over you. Stop it. Let it go.
7. Now, go put your big boy pants on and make sure they don't drop to your ankles.
8. And smile, because you know full well you've done some awesome stuff on Nostr. And will continue to do so in the future .
9. I bet she is a big sister. I'm one of those. I bet she also feels threatened by your success. Embrace her. And I bet you anything - she wants a deep conversation, where she can share her vulnerabilities. She doesn't know how.
10. Then again I could be all plaque.