yes, I def talk different to men and women. i've found that acknowledging my audience's gender is key in not making a fool of myself lol. like memes i've shared on IG with a community of mostly women have hit very differently when shared on nostr with an audience of mostly men. and personally, i've talked about things with you that I wouldnt talk about with most men. it's not about me abandoning parts of myself, but more about what's appropriate given the context and me sharing chosen parts of myself. however, there is the chance that I don't share something that is appropriate and it's a missed opportunity but as of this moment im okay with this bc I trust my gut. 🫂💜