Never say another person ruined your life.

By doing that you are submitting to them and putting them in a position of power over you.

Never relinquish power over any situation that affects your life.

Take accountability for everything.

Someone harmed you? It was your fault for allowing that person into your life.

Only when you think that way can you take back control of your life.

No one has the ability to ruin my life except me.

I alone am the master of my fate.