Like a partner? How did you get there?
Discussion
Time
It takes 10 years just to get to know someone.
Trying to understand what gets people to stay those 10 years instead of leaving when it feels boring and there’s nothing to talk about
Understanding.
Having someone you like and that understands you is a rare and beautiful thing.

Yeah. That.
it doesn't mean the relationship is going to look like you want though.
and TBH
i screwed it up looking for something new and exciting too. it took a few years before I realized my mistake.