Forming bonds is important, but just wait until you have a child. Until then, you may be bonding with the wrong species, but better something than nothing.
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Yeah well.. theres a good chance that that might never happen. Been alone for 6 years now. Rarely leave my home for anything. Pushed all my girlfriends away(like I did to all my friends so one more reason why I never go out) so after realizing it would just happen the same all the over again I kinda just gave up so I wont hurt any other nice woman's feelings anymore.
Intimacy. It's the scariest thing to most people in the world. But in the end, it is worth it.
Only dead things can't change. Inevitability is a fairytale that atheists believe in. It's too fiat for a bitcoiner. I sell hope.
It's possible you dropped those girls out of concern for their well-being. But humans rarely kill things they truly love....even if it's a messy relationship.
You didnt read it right or I wasnt clear enough maybe. Let me clarify: I never knew why I pushed them away, nor why I did the same with all my friends. I just felt most in peace when alone. That was before I was diagnosed with ptsd. So now I know why and therefore I know it's likely to happen again.