Before I forget, let me commit a pull request in that game you are working on. It's in a form of a checklist. I got it from a book upon request.
1. Are we solidly in our own open hearts? Do we feel unconditional love for the person with whom we are communicating?
2. Are we being completely honest?
3. Are we sure this is what we think and what we want to say?
4. Are we sure we are responding to what the other actually thinks and what he/she has actually said?
5. Are we clear of any hint of wanting to make an impression or to control or persuade the other person?
6. Are we truly listening to the other person?
7. Are we clear of energies such as accusation or complaint?
8. Is the other person completely safe with us?
9. Have we aimed our communication directly at the heart of where the other person is coming from? Does our communication show total respect?
10. Are we remaining in our hearts, even when catalyst strikes in the midst of conversation?