Ppl feel others are crazy when they see nonconformity, informal, & “odd” behavior…you could find a lot of that in a place filled with ppl trying to live life differently…like nostr/bitcoin space. Maybe you like a little crazy. What is it they’re doing? You could focus on your dealbreakers n basics you’re looking for like respect, authenticity, n some common interests?
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what I deem to be crazy is them doing the same action over n over & expecting a different result.. & not listening to advice if it doesn’t come from other people that are also doing similar actions over n over n expecting different results..
but this is kinda like a seasonal thing I’ve noticed, i only encounter these experiences around these 3 months November, December and January.. I’ve noticed the pattern repeating itself, i feel like it’s to show me what I don’t like n don’t need n to be patient n more grateful for when I do receive what I want n neeed.. if that makes sense
Both the content you describe and their cycles…I see them too.
I’ve absolutely let the past 5 years and those things consume me.
I’d be in a worse place had I not noticed…and realize what it shows in me.
Thanks for being real, brother. I’m grateful for you.
Really appreciate that brother, honestly I’m very happy we’ve become aware of this 🫂 grateful for you!
I suppose I am happy…no matter the situation, no matter how dismal, hopeless, bleak the truth maybe…living a lie will always always always be a lower form of existence. This is the foundation for the Greek truism “certainty brings insanity”… and also “know thy self”. Both are fed by that idea that the totality of our lives and the influence upon them are absolutely out of reach; to claim otherwise is…insane.
BEAUTIFULLY SAID 👏 I absofuckinglutely agree!! 🫂 i am always happy & it freaks everyone out how i can be so positive in such negative n hopeless situations.. 
These months are funny I notice a lot of people around me spiral (holiday depression), then hustle to fix things in these months, with January being a big kicker, like New Year’s resolutions. It sounds like it must be serious tho. Some things just suck to deal with when you’re trying to have a deeper friendship/relationship. Addiction, depression, lack of care/effort for what you’re asking. Yeah, sounds like they want to stay on the hamster wheel and you don’t. It’s ok to move on. It suck’s and it’s really hard when you’re empathetic.
Exactly, i never became fully aware of this until this year.. every other year i rolled with the punches n thought it was how it had to be. But it doesn’t.
That’s beautiful fren. Wishing you so much success, eyes that are always open, and ease with what you’re looking for.