Iβm a magnet for crazies
how tf do i reverse this
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Be crazy yourself, then maybe theyβll push back πΆπΎπ€£
I feel like this is exactly what they want from me πππ 
Crazy women always come across as very interesting at first
Youβre right something about the mystery of it all is very interesting
You start out thinking: now THIS girl's got personality. Only too late do you realize she's bat shit crazy after you already let her move in! π€£π
I don't know but I am one, too. If that helps.
did you discover it on your own or did someone have to tell you ?
I discovered on my own. It wasn't hard though, even if I am in a group of 20 the crazy stranger WILL choose me 100% π¬
Ppl feel others are crazy when they see nonconformity, informal, & βoddβ behaviorβ¦you could find a lot of that in a place filled with ppl trying to live life differentlyβ¦like nostr/bitcoin space. Maybe you like a little crazy. What is it theyβre doing? You could focus on your dealbreakers n basics youβre looking for like respect, authenticity, n some common interests?
what I deem to be crazy is them doing the same action over n over & expecting a different result.. & not listening to advice if it doesnβt come from other people that are also doing similar actions over n over n expecting different results..
but this is kinda like a seasonal thing Iβve noticed, i only encounter these experiences around these 3 months November, December and January.. Iβve noticed the pattern repeating itself, i feel like itβs to show me what I donβt like n donβt need n to be patient n more grateful for when I do receive what I want n neeed.. if that makes sense
Both the content you describe and their cyclesβ¦I see them too.
Iβve absolutely let the past 5 years and those things consume me.
Iβd be in a worse place had I not noticedβ¦and realize what it shows in me.
Thanks for being real, brother. Iβm grateful for you.
Really appreciate that brother, honestly Iβm very happy weβve become aware of this π« grateful for you!
I suppose I am happyβ¦no matter the situation, no matter how dismal, hopeless, bleak the truth maybeβ¦living a lie will always always always be a lower form of existence. This is the foundation for the Greek truism βcertainty brings insanityββ¦ and also βknow thy selfβ. Both are fed by that idea that the totality of our lives and the influence upon them are absolutely out of reach; to claim otherwise isβ¦insane.
BEAUTIFULLY SAID π I absofuckinglutely agree!! π« i am always happy & it freaks everyone out how i can be so positive in such negative n hopeless situations.. 
These months are funny I notice a lot of people around me spiral (holiday depression), then hustle to fix things in these months, with January being a big kicker, like New Yearβs resolutions. It sounds like it must be serious tho. Some things just suck to deal with when youβre trying to have a deeper friendship/relationship. Addiction, depression, lack of care/effort for what youβre asking. Yeah, sounds like they want to stay on the hamster wheel and you donβt. Itβs ok to move on. It suckβs and itβs really hard when youβre empathetic.
Exactly, i never became fully aware of this until this year.. every other year i rolled with the punches n thought it was how it had to be. But it doesnβt.
Thatβs beautiful fren. Wishing you so much success, eyes that are always open, and ease with what youβre looking for.
