Any woman I’ve been with wants a masculine man but also wants him to submit to her will, and control him. I’ve done nothing but try and work on myself as to why I keep attracting narcissistic women as well.
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I think it is in their nature and truly they are disappointed / let down / turned off when you give in. Yes both people need to be heard, but I see the difference when my wife is being bitchy and I submit to her requests, versus when she is being bitchy and I do not give in. The first version ends up with her submitting and being content. The second version ends up with a tense household because she is taking my role and she is not actually happy about it.
They do not understand what they are actually attracted to.