But honestly, this is the internet. You aren’t popular on the internet and don’t know the terrible things ppl will constantly bombard you with regardless of what you say or do. This isn’t a social club or something, it’s a public forum.
So, you need to learn to handle banter and criticism, and not let it get to you. I think I’m p fair with my criticism of others.
Also, never spend half an hour writing a fedi post. If you spend more than 5 minutes, you’re making a huge mistake.