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Well, for one you attack people over perceived differences of inferiority to yourself. Whether that be for their race, gender, sexuality, politics, and so on. While it’s perfectly fine to hold that as an opinion and or even express it. There’s a time and a place and you’ve repeatedly shown yourself incapable of exercising discretion or tact in doing so.
I’ll use one of my own pet peeves as an example; I really find overtly flamboyant homosexual men to be incredibly obnoxious. To the point where I feel they are needlessly showing off their lifestyle in a very attention-seeking manner. There was once a point where the “We are here, we are queer, get used to it.“ sentiment was necessary to impose acceptance of alternative sexualities and lifestyles in society. But these days it just comes off as needlessly garish.
Now in spite of that particularly spicy opinion of mine that I hold, I don’t actively go after all gay men because of that. I still respect that they have as much of a right to freely express themselves as I do. So in spite of my difference in opinion, I’ll do all that I can remain civil with such people until given a reason not to be otherwise. The moment they, or anyone else break social etiquette is when the gloves come off and I don’t give a shit about maintaining civility. I’ll start using crude or provocative language in accordance with what I feel is right in that situation. You, on the other hand, went after a pair of transgender strangers that were having an entirely unrelated discussion simply because they were.
That is not being very nice or sociable. It is, in fact, quite the contrary. Looking through your past post(s) will reveal much the same in various other circumstances. Just the way you interact with the people around has caused them to have a negative opinion. That opinion, in turn, informs how strangers (myself) unfamiliar with you may start to treat you. I don’t really know you that well to really hold a strong stance in either direction. All I saw was a weirdo with a fixation on paedophiles, though the more I saw you around and how you interacted with people compounded by the stories I was told. The more I was inclined to be wary of and eventually tease you at a very surface level. The reason I did decide to accept your request to follow me and follow you back, in turn, is because I hadn’t given you a fair chance to demonstrate what I have been told wasn’t the case.
As I’ve told nostr:npub1ch8nj9yu4676fnwkzacu28mt4y002ezeryqyuhzfnzjw560sq5fqaysw60 previously, judging people based on what they’ve heard second-hand and not from first-hand experience doesn’t sit very well with me. I’ve been mistreated myself because of that very same mentality and is not something I would want to subject anyone else to, yourself included. Sadly though, I haven’t been very impressed with what I’ve seen thus far. I do think there is room for you to reflect on how you interact with your environment and how that informs the way people treat you in turn. Just treating people a little better with civility and common courtesy goes a long way in helping change the way people interact with you. Some people, usually the sort you’ll typically see on 4Chan, Poa.st and so on have no problem with the way they treat people and will continue to do so. Whether you choose to do the same is ultimately your prerogative.
But you can’t expect people to treat you nicer without also putting in the effort to do the same nostr:npub1pnpez7cn4h04pxg07dmmklzyz7u7fm0w2ddrw220qh785rq3m42ql452zw.
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I don't think nostr:npub1ch8nj9yu4676fnwkzacu28mt4y002ezeryqyuhzfnzjw560sq5fqaysw60 is really one to get uppity over that sort of thing.
But honestly, this is the internet. You aren’t popular on the internet and don’t know the terrible things ppl will constantly bombard you with regardless of what you say or do. This isn’t a social club or something, it’s a public forum.
So, you need to learn to handle banter and criticism, and not let it get to you. I think I’m p fair with my criticism of others.
Also, never spend half an hour writing a fedi post. If you spend more than 5 minutes, you’re making a huge mistake.