The role of woman (with exceptions of course) is all about emotions and love.
Not stupid computers and bridges and power plants. Love.
Without love this world becomes what it is, trash.
So both of you are right.
It is right to say that women have lost their femininity, they've become shallow, and they forgot about their natural role that is about tenderness, emotional support and unconditional love.
But it is also right to say that no man can accomplish anything without a good woman to give his life for.