what a great question, Lady Mae~!

while there is a sense of incompleteness without Her, i recognize that a healthy relationship requires two individuals. that's why i work to maintain a level of independence in other areas of my life. i understand that my growth as an individual enriches our relationship, and also try to maintain core values like respect, humility, and kindness even in Her absence. i'd like to think of these values as part of who i am and something that She saw in me from the beginning.

i pursue my own career and enjoy hobbies that help me grow as a person (without giving away too many specifics). this allows me to bring more to our marriage; these activities not only provide fulfillment but also enhance my ability to support and connect with Her.

hopefully this answers your question. though i did notice that i talked about Her quite a bit still. lol :P