nostr:npub166hl5x2mkuv55uzcxt6nt7n9h2ca3hx6mf4j2s8lxjehpygsk9msxj0thf i feel like you will appreciate this
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this is so beautifully written.
it took me awhile to truly understand the depth of real love this way. like others, i "chased sparks", believing love is found in the performance, in the passion.
it's not that my love wasn't present, it was just inconsistent. it came with a plea—to be seen, to be validated. but "love doesn't demand attention."
real love can't be given or received by demand. i had to learn to love and accept myself fully before i could love Her and receive Her love fully.
perhaps, early on, this is what She saw in me, or felt with me rather—something quiet, something safe, because that's what i felt with Her.
and i'm fortunate, because She believed in me. that i could figure it out and rise to meet Her where She stood. She stayed because She knew i could, because She knew i was meant to be Her good boy...
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