#[2] did you bring this account from some other client? Damus creates contact lists on account creation. I don’t see your list on the damus relay.
Discussion
The fix might be to modify follows or relays in a different client like snort.social? And then come back to Damus.
For reference, that’s what I did when I mined my wife’s pubkey before she could use Damus.
If we did the nprofile thing it could load their relays from that, but the other client would have to support it.