Same! I was afraid to ask or mention because I'm such a noob and thought there may be an obvious answer that I was overlooking.

I use Amethyst on Android. Based on bits I've gathered over the past couple of months, I have a feeling that I use too many relays.

Also I still haven't made an effort to read the documentation to understand the relay page, and the various possible settings for individual relays (all the little icons). I just have everything turned on and feel like I've somehow shot myself in the foot 😂