That sounds good. The best road is to stand your ground, but still respect the opposite enough to give them their space. Or leave this conflict entirely.

Wish it was that easy though. People mostly listen to their emotions like little angry kids.

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Yea πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’―. Small awareness usually = big emotional outbursts.

It's best not to feed their attention needs.

Space and separation works best for sure!

And supress your own need for win. Idk how you guys, but I'm pretty egoistic and when I get really pissed off and down to someone's level, I want blood.

I learned around my 30's from my husband to stand back and require discussion or refuse to participate. But it takes a lot of toxins to keep and process. Blood would taste better.πŸ‘€πŸ˜…

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€™πŸ½ yea I need to lift weights once every three days atleast or I become insufferable and intolerant of any minor grievences or perceived insults thrown my way.

Once I'm done with working out at the #gym my anger is gone and their problems don't bother me anymore πŸ€™πŸ½.

Great point guys!

In this particular case I’m for sure not being vindictive but want to state my truth so I don’t secretly hold grudges.

My concern here is that I don’t want to put so much self importance and give off vibe that I’m center of the universe - it’s not about that.

I also don’t know if that would make it an unnecessary big deal that can hurt me down the line.

I’m torn.

You'll be very probably accused of being selfish anyway. It's a nice vessel for manipulating you.

1) Stay true to yourself.

2) Don't be a dick.

3) In your life you go first, who denies this right on your behalf, breaks rule no.2.

Solid life advice

U got this!

Interesting point! I'm on the verge of starting working out, nobody ever told me it might help me become less asshole πŸ‘€πŸ˜…

Nice! Beer and Jacuzzi is my reward to myself after a workout. πŸ€™πŸ½ enjoy!

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