It's painful to me to start something and not get to finish it. Anyone else have this problem?

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I have the reverse problem

Start millions of dev projects and never finish them

Yes life happens

Once I figure out that a problem is solvable and exactly how, going ahead and actually solving it feels like a chore. Its the most important part tbh, but also the hardest one to convince yourself to follow through with.

Nope have plenty of abandoned projects.

Yeah man! I still haven't been able to buy all available Bitcoin on the market 😢 I would really like to finish that project...

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I find myself thinking of unfinished problems before I go to sleep

Yes, it feels the same as quitting 🙁

it's my daily routine 😭😭

Yes, same with failure.

I was sucker for doing everything perfectly. Take repainting the bedroom: even twisting round to paint *inside* the fitted wardrobe, above the door where it would never be seen. My method now? Don’t do perfect jobs, but I promise myself that if it still worries me in a month’s time, I’ll come back to it.

Park those jobs with a promise to yourself to revisit in xx months.

Yes.

Stuff for myself I can start & abandon pretty easily.

If I'm working for someone it feels different. I want to hand them something completed otherwise it feels like a waste. Is that some sort of need to be validated by them?

I also can't turn off a movie once I'm an hour or so in. It doesn't matter how bad it is, I need that feeling of resolution.

I think that's normal. Not trying it would be the mistake. Some things that generate enough motivation continue to live on.

I do with reading books.

Cutting a loser saves precious time

There is no need to finish something but if the chapter is not closed properly, that is pain