Going into debt to finance a party that lasts a few hours (wedding) is insane

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Yes fuck that shit

More couples should get married in back yards. Friends and relatives should do the cooking. You don’t need to impress anyone, you’ve already found your person. You’re starting a family. You’re winning.

Agreed, i don’t how weddings got to be this big spectacle. It’s weird and gross if you ask me

Mostly peer pressure and “tradition”. It’s toxic.

“Tradition” is right. Plus men not reigning in their wive’s expectations. It’s not a GD fairytale ladies!

Marriage is work. Starting off in debt is probably one of the main causes of divorce.

Follow the parasite economy. The boneyard is the first indication. I am still traumatized from my wedding. I had to take a Xanax just to walk down the aisle. All was well until we had to do the champagne toast…it was only a little less nightmarish than the Sixteen Candles wedding scene. #lovedtheteapot

Ritual ?

Yea it’s just become a thing I guess…

Totally agree. I just want to have a fun, chill, celebratory day. It’s difficult dealing with wedding vendors who all act like I want to spend insane amounts of money or wear a big uncomfortable dress because it’s “my day”. The wedding industry is nuts.

Opt out and get hitched on a bitcoin standard! 🧡

We are!

So happy for you! 🥰