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Should I get back on dating apps? Yes or no?

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Buidl one, a weird one for Nostriches :-)

I support this cuz it’s such a sausage fest on here, so good odds in my favor, and like we are def an odd bunch that can only connect with each other

But there’s privacy implications for some of us, and who’s willing to meet if we live on other sides of the world..?

Maybe a singles retreat, with Bitcoin in mind, but the core use case is “single and ready to mingle”

We mated just fine before dating apps, if anything dating apps have just made it worse. Unintuitively, reducing the cost of dating to zero does not produce the benefits we think it does.

We need to go back to getting introduced by friends and family and "dropping the handkerchief”.

I know I agree

Totally out of my realm, no idea. I said f*#k it to dating and married my best friend.

What’s your goal?

I like having a partner it spreads the stress and responsibility and hopefully allows for a complementary system

Ok.

What are you actually looking for? What you wrote leads like an intro to a dissertation.

Penis butter

Can you see why I’m single?

Lolol.

You want an emotional connection.

Connection emotionally with your reasons for wanting a partner.

Use apps to get

1) undetected HPV

2) Be an option

3) Have endless conversations with other NPCs

They are all creeps out there both male and females. It’s not like it used to be dude.

Cooties to 1000000000th power

Ikr this is always the conclusion I come to but like I don’t what else to do

Tend to your garden and all the butterflies will come.

Also, friend groups are the best source of quality people.

I used to throw dinners for my thirsty friends lol

Idk where you live but bitcoin and crypto and finance circles are always full of single people. Just Be careful of the gold digging chicks looking for fintech bros hahaha

Me as a fintech chick dodging gold digging Bitcoin bros left and right tho, true story 🤣

Oh boy! Yeah it’s tough out there.

Just save yourself from these apps.

Because the cooties situation is alarming.

Or be like me sometime ago. Download the app, talk to 10,000 people and never meet them 🤣

HPV is in virtually everyone, pretty much unavoidable unless you have the 💉.

They’re not all creeps out there, you just have to have intention and discernment in your selection.

That’s why it’s so important to answer the question of what you want. Who do you want. What are their traits?

Of all the apps I found bumble the best.

Im not sure what city you are but hinge and coffee meets bagel (if it’s still around) are good options as well.

Might as well. Life is more fun with a lover. And maybe you find the one and have a family. ✌️

. . . build it 💕 and he will come

How do you create a dating app for Nostr

Find your niche

Begin by finding your niche. Niches in dating apps can be anything that may drive user interest.

Choose a business model and monetization

There are several business models to choose from, such as subscription-based, freemium, or advertising-based.

Choose the tech stack

You will need to choose the technology stack for your app. This includes the programming languages, frameworks, and libraries you will use to build your app.

Build your app using the Nostr protocol

You will need to build your app using the Nostr protocol. This means that you will need to use a Nostr client to access the protoco.

Implement registration and sign-in features

To provide a seamless user experience, you will need to add a simple registration and sign-in feature. The integration of social sign-in is one of the most popular solutions.

Test and launch your app

Once you have built your app, you will need to test it thoroughly to ensure that it works as expected. Once you are satisfied with your app, you can launch it on the Nostr protocol.

Creating a dating app for Nostr would require a good understanding of the Nostr protocol and how to build an app that uses it. You would also need to consider the business model, technology stack, and user experience of your app.

I figure this how Tinder was born…

Mike stop stealing from Chat GPT 🤣🤣🤣

I’m kidding never stop Ily ♥️

I think we can find it in nostr when we create enough value. We will meet the right person for us.

At the end of the day, it has to lead to a real world meeting and if the system isn’t built for that then the system isn’t built for that

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Do you want to fuck? That is what dating apps optimize for. There are better ways to meet people you want more from.

Do what you love to do. You will meet someone along the way.

I love spending time alone thinking, reading and writing - not especially conducive 😂

i enjoy tinder

date and have fun for a while

don't invite "them" home ;)

Never tried tinder? People ask others on dates on tinder?

its more casual hookup ; depends on individual and age range lol

I have met decent girls on tinder who was not looking to hookup. We didn’t end up in relationship but I admired them. You can definitely know some decent boys as well. Just men are generally more horny.

not always, they are just socially trained from birth, you slut shamers

I think finding another enjoyable activity or group activity would be more constructive then the dating apps. All the young fellow's I work with that areone them treat it like a lolly shop. Plus don't want to commit because the grass is always greener on the other side. Some guys on them are good. Might be hard to filter through. Seems like a lot of young women aren't able to chose wisely.