Never figured out what's up with this, but it's baffled me for a long time.
In my single days, if I commented on how attractive this or that gal was, if she was Black, the occasional person (always some person I knew) would mouth to me "she's Black."
Are there people out there who really believe others are totally unaware of skintone? Do they feel the need to educate some aspect of their social contract?
I've never figured it out.
nostr:npub1aem2tstsjh9yxetrn9732y3x44dj3sw7rtjesv09vlmzxvtryk5s29r94a This is the same as someone mouthing to you "she's crazy".
Like, yeah, she's hot, but she's also more likely to be:
* abrasive
* overbearing
* entitled
* loud
* inconsiderate
* walking around with a huge chip on her shoulder
and you're too wrapped up in how hot she is to be taking those possibilities into consideration.
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Part of that fluidity comes from moving halfway across the country or world every 18-36 months for 18 years while you develop as a human. Has its downsides too.
