did you just identify with a dolly in this puppet show?
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A dolly?
I was making a joke about being stuck in a prison with a psychopath that tells you "no helpnis coming" 😆
ah, but that's not a very appropriate way to sooth the ego of a psychopath, that's a way to get them to attack you, like making a loud noise around zombies
sorry i didn't quite catch the context or intent of that... yeah, just sayin'... don't make threats against a psychopath, what you want to do is disappear into the woodwork, or straight up disappear if you can
if you have buttons they will find them and they will try to use them to drag your emotional state into compliance
Yea, that's part of what makes the joke funny to me...
well, if you actually had suffered under the baleful influence of a manipulative psychopath you'd get it that it's not very funny
good for you that you seem to have evaded being a patsy for someone with a personality disorder
once you are broken, young, it's hard to avoid these things, it's like magnetism and not funny, just plain not funny thing to joke about
I worked with a man that admitted to torturing animals (a turtle and cat is all I remember) and eventually chased his fleeing wife and children to Edmonton where he is a wanted criminal.
Quite hard to let people know how fucked up he was when he was such a smooth talker. They found out when the police dropped by to let us know why he wasn't coming into work.
I was also married to a woman with a cluster b personality disorder, that was quite a ride, but nothing like a psychopath.
Bad things happen to people all over the world but that doesn't mean we shouldn't try to find humor where we can. It would be quite a bleak life to never hear a joke because someone, somewhere was hurt once.
see, that's the thing... if it's ironic, it's easy to laugh, but if it is sarcastic, or ridicule, it's just not funny, and actually, the irony of the situation is that personality disorders cause people to not be able to recognise the difference
what i read sounds like ridicule and sarcasm, and that puts one check on my 3 of 9 criteria list for identifying a dangerous person, two more checks and i just disappear but you only got one so i'm gonna educate you instead, as i like to do that...
Uh huh... it's called surreal humor.
uh hu, stay away from my yet to be born daughter
So are you histrionic, borderline or a vulnerable narcissist? Those definitely seem in your range, with the deliberate misinterpretations in order to fuel a victim hood worldview for yourself and obvious attempts at creating conflict.
I hope you can get better before your future kids have to deal with the emotional abuse.
you just checked off 3 of my criteria in one post there, congrats