What do you think of women nowadays who want to be a stay at home mother or wife?
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More sane and honest than women on average.
I respect that, I think it's also a smart financial choice and nobody can raise your child better than you can.
It's a tragedy that we've been taught to look down on it, as if being a slave to some business is somehow more worth your while than raising your children and spending time with your family.
I know. It is Sad.
Anyone can choose what they want.
If women choose to be at home and the husband agrees with it, why not?
I prefer my woman to be a housewife, because she will make sure that our kids get the best of anything, especially education. The first education is coming from home and it's from the children's parents, especially the mother because usually a father will have work to do, to bring money to the house. Mother's job is to bring peace and education, and the father job is to make sure that anything will not disturb it.
I agree. But why do you think, I'm going out on a limb here. But why do most guys not want that anymore? My perception is skewed though because this topic comes up a lot on reddit. And women bash the fuck out of other women who want that. And all the guy commentary is that she is a lazy bum and a gold digger.
Why do they say that?
Trad wives are the best. I think it's a really healthy arrangement. But it should treated as a job. She should be well educated on finances. Be able to understand investments. The man should be able to focus more on work to bring in more money and she should be able to manage that money. She should be in charge of organizing childrens classes and lives. She should also help with social gatherings. A full time working dad is usually to busy to make time to throw parties but it's important. He works all day and then kids need to be wrestled with, taught sports and such. It's a 24 hour job for both parents.
Both should be involved in house work and I think the male should be able to cook too because it's weak to be to reliant on one person. It makes sense for the woman to do more but if she's pregnant a lot she might not be able to.
But still it's a really efficient arrangement if the guy can make over 120k. Maybe 200k in like California.
I do too. It's hated on a lot though
I think they should have a good plan to get good suitors. Most women who want the life won't get it. It's not economically feasible.
They should also consider what to do afterwards.
Yes that's what a lot of People say
where are they? if it's on their grandparent's farm idgaf where it is, i'm coming!
It's crazy I'm so surprised there's lots of dudes in favor of this such a different experience asking this question on Reddit
why would you want a wife who is always out fighting with men at some job when she could be making your kids and house better instead?
this whole "independent woman" thing has been a marketing campaign to justify also squeezing women to pay the banker and goverment taxes while keeping them so busy they can't think about their actual life and family.
women love people and it's horrible that they are driven to fight with people instead of grow them.
sooner or later the natural state has to return.
Bingo
I think it's their birthright.
Women should be able to decide what they want to, whether it be in the kitchen or in Congress.