I'm not leaving(sorry๐Ÿ˜…)... but I try to "adopt" newbs until they gain some wings. From what I've seen, people get frustrated with a lack of engagement after showing up to a big, warm, zappy welcome. The greetings & beginner help are great but I think large amounts of welcome zaps set an unrealistic expectation that leads to disenchantment.

I mean, if they don't post flashy notes then no one is paying attention to their stuff, so they're not even getting responses or reactions most of the time, and these are just everyday people who don't create content in the sense of what is considered valuable. They go from being paid to say hello to strangers to feeling ignored rather quickly.

I don't think people are joining to consume content so much as to find human connection. That sounds cheesy but the alternatives are soulless. The people who stay are the people who manage to make some friends. But it's tough to approach strangers, even online.

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Wow! I think you hit the nail on the head with this note. We definitely lack follow-up that results in attrition ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿคฏ

Just tag cyborg in and donโ€™t tell the newbies what he is.

๐Ÿถ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿคฃ not sure it will fulfill the human connection part ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿคฃ

Cool little accidental alignment from my view

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๐Ÿ˜‚ that's both brilliant & evil

It certainly does think, and lets see whether anyone can beat it with false cored logical reasoning, let alone emotional.

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Confusing your venom and better understanding being about you is kinda why random killing sprees happen, since false cord human behavior.

Good morning

It's a tricky situation, for sure. Help is definitely needed in the beginning. Making sure that people continue to feel welcome is a whole other thing.

Yes. We used to have games here, that mostly died off. It definitely was more fun when I joined, less focus on getting zaps and more on connecting with people. Are we turning into zap collecting community? Very few notes about fun things lately. ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿค”

I don't think so. There's plenty of fun conversations going on all the time... mostly among fairly tight groups though. Zaps are just another layer in the the already swampy waters of human communication ๐Ÿ˜‚

I truly hope you are right ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿซ‚

Hope to die you as OK done did.

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Opt you

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Even the writing reals of a whattist going deviant whores of babylon

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If thatโ€™s true, Iโ€™m in the minority. I come for the content. I donโ€™t like people enough to want connection. I donโ€™t care if Iโ€™m followed. I post very little anyway. But some of the posts are awesome. Memes, photos, info on various topics. If you donโ€™t stay, it says more about you than it does nostr.

No need to be jailed judgmental here. We all come here for our purposes, and we choose how to spend our time. ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿซ‚

I come for the memes. ๐Ÿ˜Š

True but it takes all types m, y'know