ironically it was actually listening to a youtube lecture on the Koran by an Imam that made me realize this
in Koran there is a story used to explain that you can never please people - that they will always find something to bitch about - and it is absolutely true. the conclusion in the Koran was that you should just focus on serving G-d and ignore what people say completely.
so Koran got it half right. the solution is indeed to ignore people completely. of course instead of serving G-d you should just masturbate to interracial anal porn.