I’m not trying to be funny with this post.

I’m a 44 year old woman, and sometimes men strike up conversations with me in public. I’m generally okay with it since I’m naturally outgoing.

In the last month, three grown men have told me their main hobby is scrolling TikTok. When I asked what they do for fun, that was their answer. Nothing more. I thought the first person was joking but they are serious. Then they are confused when I don’t want to hang out.