my dad used that
my mother explained things
my mother needed to be more firm but that was her main mistake - and this is also why i believe a good father has an important role in being firm, women are naturally not as good at that
my dad was an actual psychopath, so there's that also
in recent weeks my intake of anything outside of nostr has almost dwindled away to nothing, i think today i checked zerohedge briefly and it was maybe a week since i did that before that, literally nothing i need to really know that someone isn't posting on here