All these stereotypes about men this and women that are far too rigid, they just don't make sense. Good honorable qualities are attractive in everyone, male or female.
Like this idea that nurturing is only attractive in women and is weak in men. Wildly inaccurate. This morning I had to take my dog to the vet. Also sitting in the waiting room was an attractive man in his 20's, way too young for me, but he had long hair, a beard... and, he was cradling a small sick dog. He was comforting that little creature and my ovaries nearly exploded. We're I in my 20's and single I would have been throwing myself at that dude 🤩
Nurturing is an honorable quality that is wildly attractive in anyone who has it.