nostr:npub10000000thpep7auj058803nqtymqlf3rw87lzhe6mkfeywnpxg5sjw7nql's relay proxy is probably the best solution, but lowering the number of relays you pull from helps.
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Where can I get it or read more about it?
Saved! Might need to ask you later how to do it. I don't know much about coding or programming