I agree with you. Gotta stay balanced. I do see both sides especially since spam filtering is far from standardised in Nostr yet.
We're in agreement it should be an option, not forced on or off.
The problem wrt content being flagged is you don't see "this has been reported by these people" anymore, the message just doesn't show, and certain accounts like nostr:npub1nym2200088t397yx43lza4gfec3rk56gxnwjnk2u4w5ld0qpau6sskc7fq get auto blocked... that is shadowbanning when you can't disable it.
