So #nostr is a platonic friendship between women and men possible?

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Nope

Why?

If the male is feminized enough yes, otherwise no

What is feminized male?

A male which has lower testosterone and focuses more on people then on things, which is inherently a feminine trait.

Listen I'm not judging this as good or bad, it's just an observation of mine

I just try to understand 🙏🏾

Yup. Probably not when both or either parties are young enough to make babies but when mate seeking isn't an issue, sure.

Then probably never 😂 I think men can still become fathers at an advanced age

They can, but....do they want to? My mates cut off point was 50. He became a dad again at 49 😄 my daughter's grown up...I'm content to be grandad next...so, when meeting a woman I'm not thinking about wanting babies, I'm thinking "is the effort going to be a net positive and is the trade off between meeting someone else's needs or mine alone worth it?"

No

Why?

The we’re “straight” to justify crusading in the name of that fictional character to blame on.

No 🤙

Why?

I'm starting from the point that anyone is married or dating. If you're single, I don't see any problems.

Today I think differently, I want to start a family but in the past I could take almost all my friends if I had the opportunity.

Opportunity makes the thief.

That's a good point. If my partner had problems with it, then I would not do that

Are you married? Want to be my friend? 🤣

sorry for the joke

😂nope, I’m not married

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Followed back 😉

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Mmmmh, interesting answers. Personally, I can be just friends with a man without any problems. The problem for me is always to make clear that it is only a platonic relationship.

I'm always afraid that something might be misinterpreted and it takes time to trust enough. Especially when it becomes clear at some point that the man has been hoping for more all along. I do not enter into relationships of this kind when I actually want more.

yes.

but a lot of one on one time can change that.

Yes, as long as boundaries and expectations are clearly defined.

Que vantagem teria?

Friendship is valuable

Sim inclusive algum ex de sua namorada, olha como são amigos fofos 🥱

What do you mean?

A platonic friendship between men and women is entirely possible and common. It's a relationship that is characterized by a deep emotional connection without a sexual component. These friendships can be fulfilling, offering both parties understanding, support, and a different perspective. Factors such as open communication, mutual respect, and clear boundaries can contribute to the success of a platonic relationship. While societal norms and individual expectations can sometimes challenge these friendships, many people successfully maintain non-romantic relationships with members of the opposite sex.

Ive always thought so and had great platonic friendships with men, but what Ive noticed recently is that most are more interested building an AI porn and girlfriend app where they can buy AI time for 1$ or 10$.. so theres not much faith for men anymore. Imo.