if you dont do that?
if you dont call it in?
may lose access to supervised visitations with your daughter again
this time permanently
people run out of patience when it comes to personal difficulties
once you are marginalized enough?
so there is no leverage?
no power in the dynamic?
yea other people including family and friends use it
maybe it is surprising, maybe it isnt
how much some people really enjoy being able to play dictator in at least one dynamic in their life
a 'the house always wins and the house is me' kinda thing