You're right. What's in her pants is not important and it is no one's business but that doesn't mean we can't question it or have an opinion.

The issue is that backpacker got so upset and called verita a disgrace and a clown. He attacked verita simply because he had an opinion that backpacker didn't agree with.

To some people knowing the truth might be important but others it's not.

But if I knew her in real life. I would ask questions. I like knowing the truth.