That’s a Fuck NO! I *rarely* forgive, and it doesn’t hurt me nor do I carry any anger for anyone!
When someone gets CUT OUTTA MY LIFE, that is it and they will *NOT* be ever returning!
Obvi, I think very long and hard about what they did to ROYALLY FKING PISS ME off and *WHY* they deserve to be CUT OUTTA my life!
Usually, I tell people exactly what it is they are doing and give them several chances before they get FILTERED OUT FOREVA!
Forgiveness does not imply that you excuse or forget the wrong doings of another.
Some people, that have been violently hurt, almost killed, have difficulties to forgive the abuser, and I understand.
I completely understand, but until the act of forgiveness is not done they life in a very mental fragile state of anger and intrusive thoughts about the abuser which prevents a healthy balanced life. Always triggered, with fight or flight responses to others.
PTSD and CPSTD are no joke, as consequences of trauma. In most cases, depending on the gravity of the situation and also the support net around, that can be non-existant in some cases, or even the refusal of self, therapy is needed.
Actually, I was SUPER CLOSE to being killed several months ago and it happened cuz of STRESS caused by an ASSHOLE guy, who was doing it intentionally and the STRESS affected my body physically! 😡
And NOPE, I do *NOT* fking forgive him nor his also IGNORANT STUPID girlfriend, (both short and *NOT* attractive!), nor anyone they are related to or friends with!
Anyway, I’m at peace with myself and DO have a trigger now cuz of what I’ve been dealing with for over 5 years!
But it’s ME who is a non-paid Therapist to my guy friends!
And I’m normally a very Chill person!
