until the apps tailor the experience that's just how it's gonna be
right now, almost all development is funded by charitable foundations and funds and there is no existing commercial offering that builds off it yet
the people who are here now are "bitcoiners and refugees of other social media" because we all agree on the point that in spite of other problems, at least we have control over our feed and nobody tells us we can't say what we want to say
clients and middlewares that polish up the raw material will give what the crowds want but this is not only the crowdfunded, volunteer built and mostly run network, that won't physically cope with the kind of load a big crowd of normies would bring along with it
i work for a company that is aiming to build open, decentralised communications platforms, and nostr is increasingly becoming the focus for the glue between all the parts of the systems
the times of polished, professionally written apps will come soon enough and you'll all be crying about how you can't find your freedom in them... but unlike the silos, the apps are just one view into a network that does not force you to look at it in any particular way than the one you build and choose