The goal is to maximize pleasure, we, as animals, want to weight immediate pleasure as being better in a time of uncertainty. Our lives are no longer as uncertain as those of our ancestors.
To delay instant gratification is to value the future more than the moment. It's my goal even if I don't achieve the desired outcome.
I'm not an animal
That isn't necessarily my goal. Pleasure is a childish pursuit. Oh yummy cwookies twaste gewd so I should eat them.
Self loathing is a clean burning fuel
Well this is natural... I think we all normally hold our orgasms. If that wasnt the case, men would be done in 2 minutes haha. Most experienced I have had the men take brakes and mvoe on to other tasks not just penetration to hold and last longer.
But Edging is literally going on for hours getting close to ti and not releasing.
sounds too risky 😮💨
Risky in which way?
I’m jk this is all above my sexual paygrade. I just have a wife, we sometimes do the dirty monogamously, the end
haha please do not think I was asking in a bad manner I was just curious. Perhaps there was muscular or other type of damage by edging haha
Do you guys watch porn or fantasize during sex?
